Is it right for your boyfriends best friend girl to call ur boyfriend for advice about they relationship?

My boyfrind and I have been dating for about 9 months and I dont understand how his bestfriend girl be calling my boyfriend. I mean i understand that they have all known each other before they known me but why do i feel uneasy about the situation is it my own insecurties or do i have a valid point. My boyfriend and her say that it is to get advice on what to do about his bestfriend and it is not like that. Me and the girl have hung out together a few times but i just dont know what to belive and she been cool but she has a negative reputation around town. My boyfriend also tells me that he will never betray his best friend like that but why do I feel this way inside. The whole situation makes me sick because i fell like i dont know what is going on. We had a fight over it last night and this is our first big fight will thing ever ve the same and how can i make this feeling go away that i feel. Please be honestIs it right for your boyfriends best friend girl to call ur boyfriend for advice about they relationship?
I don't find anything wrong with that. I hang out with my boyfriend's best friend all the time, because he's one of my best friends. If my boyfriend got jealous, it would kinda make me mad. Especially if they've known eachother before, you shouldn't worry. Just trust him until you have a reason not to.Is it right for your boyfriends best friend girl to call ur boyfriend for advice about they relationship?
I honestly would be suspicious. Normally, I would say that if they are friends then you should not worry, but the fact that he said, ';I would never betray my best friend'; rather than, ';I'm not interested in her'; or ';I would never cheat on you';, raises my eyebrow. You can't really interrogate him. I'd just watch it and be patient. If it really bothers you, and they are not really friends, I would tell him you'd like him to cut back on ';giving her advice';, especially since that's an awkward situation to be in with his friend. I'm not saying that he's cheating or would cheat, but he may be developing feelings for her.
If you trust your boyfriend then give him the benefit of the doubt. You've been with him 9 months without questioning it too badly, and as far as you know nothing has happened in that time. As for the girl, try to reach out to her and begin a friendship, it would be much harder for her to go after him if you two were friends, and also maybe she'll start going to you for advice rather than your boyfriend. Whatever you do denying a boyfriend his friends is ultimately going to doom your relationship, you wouldn't want that either.
You need to quit being so insecure. They are only friends. Look at the facts: you two have been going out 9 months, way shorter than when he knew that girl. If he wanted her then he would be going out with her right now and not you. Let them just have their talk time and advice as long as its not interfering considerable with your relationship.
girl it depends how long he been knowing her but me


i think they ******* they running game on you girl and that`s real talk.
nothin wrong w/ it. Jus a guy who is tryin to help. if u met a guy that needed advice in his relationships then u wouldnt c n e thing wrong from that pt of view would u? No he jus tryin to help out a friend that needs help.