Need Advice On potential relationship.?

Well i me this guy named J 3 months ago and he says things like damn your so sexy, just little things like that to make me smile and even if we don't talk for one day he tells me he misses me he is such a sweet guy and i really like him...but thats besides the point. The point is that i really like him and I'm afraid if i sleep with him he might not want to talk anymore or some bullshit like that...i want to do it to him but i'm torn between doing it to him and not doing it to him to keep him around.





need so advice on what to do... should i sleep with him and see what happens or just not do anything and possibly lose him for good?Need Advice On potential relationship.?
You should do whatever you're comfortable doing. There's not really a way to predict whether or not he'll leave--you'll have to judge that from the way he treats you. If he is all hands, even subtly, then I wouldn't suggest you sleep with him. If he really cares about YOU, your thoughts, opinions, well-being, the whole package, then you do what you think is right.Need Advice On potential relationship.?
i think you should see if hes using you first this happens to mee also, i would hang outt and if he trys anytihng on you the first date he is obv using you. but like if you hang out a couple of timess and know hes not usign you than go for it :)
talk to him and see how he feels
Hang out with him one on one first, just go see a movie together or go out to dinner and get to see what his intensions are. If he puts any pressure on you to have sex within the first few times that you guys hang out then I wouldnt do it, because that means that he's only in it for one thing.





However if he likes spending time with getting to know you, without wanting you to take your clothes off then I would think that hes worth your time.
How old are you? Don鈥檛 just give away yourself like that. Which do you prefer to give away yourself and gain him, or to gain yourself and lose him? If he really love鈥檚 you he will wait until marriage
How old are you?!


Don't sleep with him! Try FLIRTING and maybe start going out first!


Don't just dive right and and jump into bed! That will ruin you!