I TELL HER I LOVE HER AND SHE TELLS ME THAT SHE IS IN MY LIFE TO HELP ME.
I HAVE VERBALLY ABUSED HER IN THE PAST AND HAVE NOT FOR A YEAR NOW, BUT SHE WON'T LET THE PAST BE THE PAST WITH OUR RELATIONSHIP AND SHE TELLS PEOPLE HOW BAD I AM AS A PERSON AND NEVER SAYS GOOD THINGS ABOUT ME AND TELLS PEOPLE HOW BAD I AM AT MAKING LOVE TO HER AND I HAVE NOT HAD A SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP DUE TO THAT ABOUT 4 MONTHS NOW AND SHE SLEEPS IN THE KITCHEN AND I SLEEP IN THE LIVING ROOM ( HER CHOICE )
DUE TO HER HAVING OUR BEDROOM AS A CAT ROOM.
I GET FOODSTAMPS AND ALL I SAID TO HER WAS, IS THAT MY NEIGHBOR IS HELPING US BUDGET OUR FOOD STAMPS FOR THE MONTH DUE TO ME NOT KNOWING HOW TO SHOP.
SHE GOT MAD AND SAID EVERY NAME IN THE BOOK TO ME AND THAT I DON'T TRUST HER TO TEACH ME AND THAT'S NOT IT AT ALL.
SHE SAYS ALL WE ARE IN OUR RELATIONSHIP IS IN HER EYES ROOMMATES ONLY AND NOTHING ELSE AND I DON'T SEE IT THAT WAY.
WHY DOES SHE ACT LIKE THIS AND NO MATTER WHO SHE MEETS, SHE SAYS SHE DOESN'T LIKE THEM DUE TO THIER BI-POLA MOMENTS OR PEOPLE MAKE FUN OF HER AND FEELS LIKE PEOPLE ARE TALKING BAD ABOUT HER AND IF THAT DOES HAPPEN I DO DEFEND HER AND I DO LOVE HER VERY MUCH.
THEY SAY LOVE COMES FROM THE HEART, NOT BECAUSE SOMEONE IS FORCED TO LOVE THEM AND MY LOVE FOR HER IS DEEPER THEN ANYONE THINKS. WHY IS SHE LIKE THIS ?
I NEED A TRUE ANSWER, PLEASE. NEED ADVICE ABOUT OUR RELATIONSHIP !?
ok just let her go if she is telling people about how bad you are in bad and as a person, if you verbally abused her in the past but look at what she is doing to u now just leave or ask her to go sorry to say but that is where you guys a heading anyway NEED ADVICE ABOUT OUR RELATIONSHIP !?
sounds like she's putting you down way too much, and as for sleeping in different rooms, wake up... get rid of her, she's bringing you down as well, you may love her but she doesnt love you, your life will be better without her believe me,
i feel really sorry for you, but i have to say this, you two need to break up. She is not going to love you the way you want.
She feels she is superior to you in most aspects of your lives, especially in the money area. Since you have trouble managing money she thinks you are inferior. I'm feel really bad for you. She has already said you are room mates, there is nothing there. Is the place yours? Maybe you can get a new room mate who will respect you and get rid of her. If the place is not your can you return home and live there for a bit and get your self in order? If you cant move home is there any where else you can go, which is away form her?
I really hope things work out but i dont think they will as long as she is in your life.
Hang in there mate. There are always people you can talk to about this, like you neighbour who is already helping you. It'll be ok
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