Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Can I handle being in a relationship? Please give me advice?

Every time I have a relationship it always goes the same way. I start off so loving and dedicated to the the relationship. Then, after a few months I start to get a little moody...this gets increasingly worse with time til I just want a lot of space( no i love yous, limited kissing, basically I'm just a b*tch). Last time this happened i had been with my BF for 5 mo's and i just couldn't take the way i felt anymore so i broke up with him. After 2 or 3 weeks we got back together and now have been happy for 6 mo's but now im going crazy again. Am i destine to be alone?Can I handle being in a relationship? Please give me advice?
Well....Maybe ur just nt cut out for long term relationships. Maybe u shouldn't be in a relationship at all at this point in time. Maybe u should just b by yourself because it seems maybe u nt mature Enough to handle it and it doesn't seem fair to ur partners if a of a sudden u start buggin out when y'all are together for a while, not only because its selfish but because people start developing deep feelings after a while n u start letting them go. that can hurt a lot of men. Just be by yourself...until u figure out wat ur issues are.Can I handle being in a relationship? Please give me advice?
This has happened to me before. It just means that the person is not right for you and your getting board. Just make sure to break with the person before you hurt them. Try dating more rather than rushing into a relationship. This way you can work on finding a guys you want to be with.
this happens a lot to people. all you can do, is to keep working on ur realtionship. relationships take time. They dont just happen over night.
just relax, take it easy, get to know the guy, and be yourself.... not saying be an annoying b**, just hav some fun...





better take control of ur emotions dont let them take control of u..





for how, use yahoo answers.
No. But maybe in this point in your life you are not ready for a full blown relationship. Maybe you like your space and you are focusing on other goals.
No you're just not happy with him. Let him go. You will find someone eventually. I went through the same thing.
no tell him u have mood swings and if he leaves just let him try to find the guy that likes you for who you are
No, but try to control yourself!
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i don't think that a person is destine to be alone or anything but some do chose to be alone. i think that first one has to be comfortable with being alone before they can feel confortable with someone else. you might find sad to never have anyone to share the big and the small momntes with.





the main issue is to find someone that also enjoys sharing but enjoys being alone or solitary. taking those times to reflect inward rather than outward. both have vaule.





most i know that are at easy in their own skin, find it easier to be with others.





perhaps choosing more wisely in who you decide to share and be with is the key.

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